Carpet Cleaning Tulsa | Episode 342
Speaker 1: (00:00)
This is episode three 42 carpet cleaning Tulsa. Since 1998 we are complete carpet. Give us a call today at (918) 494-7093. Um, and I wanted to talk about the concept of the golden rule, um, and how that can apply in all of the different aspects of both business but more in personal life. Um, a lot of times I’ve heard the two completed and especially if you’re religious, you’ll take the golden rule is being do unto others as you’d have them do unto you. Or You could also tie it into something even stronger. I think Jesus said it this way was that, um, you could surmise all the law and the prophets and these two things, just, uh, uh, love the Lord your God with all your heart, mind, and soul, and then also to love your neighbor as yourself on those things. Those two ideas that are a little bit different, but they are often quoted together as the two forms of the golden rule is to do unto others you haven’t done to you.
Speaker 1: (00:59)
And also to love your neighbor as yourself. Um, I think these are two different ideas. A lot of times we put them together, but there should be taken or approached a little differently. Carpet cleaning Tulsa since 1998. I’ve seen this in action with customers who just really go above and beyond. We’ll go out there to do a great job, good service with them, and then they will in turn, they respond by doing something great for us. Or I’ll have times where I’ll show up to a job and I can see where customers are being proactive. They know that to get good service, they need to be worthy of good service. Um, a lot of times we think that we need to give good service and we do. But if you’re not the service personnel, if you’re just a regular person at home, you can get people to do a lot more for you with, um, with your kindness, by doing unto them before they do unto you.
Speaker 1: (01:45)
So do unto them in a way that you want to be responded to. carpet cleaning Tulsa And a lot of times that can come in the form of, um, the way that you greet somebody. You set the tone, you set the stage, um, uh, where you sit, situate how it is you welcome it into your home. You might offer them a drink or you all from a, a little snack, something that you can do and then you, it’s like having guests in your home. You can set the whole tone of the way that they’re going to treat you. A Rudy Giuliani he used to have when he helped to turn New York City around, uh, uh, one of the things that he talked about was what he called his broken windows theory. Carpet cleaning tulsa since 1998 I remember him talking to the press conference once about, he said, you know, we treated downtown New York as um, with this, this theory that people are inherently good, but if they see something that’s off, and they called it the broken windows theory, nobody will walk around breaking out the windows in buildings.
Speaker 1: (02:40)
Like we just naturally won’t do that. He says, but a large number of people, if they walk past a broken window, are tempted to pick up a rock and throw and break the window again. So the theory here is that if you leave something broken down in dilapidated, that people in turn will respond and treat it in the same way. It’s not that they’re destructive people. If you’re around something that seems destructive, if you see a baseball and a bat, you’ll pick the ball up and hit it with the bat. I mean, it just, it seems like that’s the purpose of what it was. Um, if you see a wall that somebody breaking down, then it makes sense for someone to grab a sledgehammer and had finished breaking it down. carpet cleaning Tulsa They see somebody painting. It makes sense. If someone picks up a paintbrush and starts adding more paint to it, it doesn’t make sense.
Speaker 1: (03:25)
If there’s no painting going on for someone to then grab a spray can and go over and start painting over something that’s finished painting. And so a lot of times that we set in motion what it is that we would like to have done. Sometimes that’s just verbally by what we say or do. Carpet cleaning Tulsa since 1998 I have yet to go to anybody’s house and start cleaning their carpets. That didn’t first ask me to come and clean their carpets. And so we respond to what we’re told is appropriate. What we see is needed. We find the need and we fill it. Um, you know, very rarely do we ever go where there is no need and try to fill the need because it doesn’t make sense. carpet cleaning Tulsa That I think is part of the, the reasoning behind the golden rule of why the golden rule works is what you do.
Speaker 1: (04:12)
We’ll come back to you. So the way you want to be treated as the way you should treat others, and this is important because I think in business you set that tone. A lot of times we think, oh well it’s just some high concept. I can’t really understand it. I don’t really get it. You know, let’s seems way too complex or you know, it’s just not for me. The reality is, is that we already know that it works because we use it all the time. You know, I don’t have, you know, a cable because I didn’t pay the cable bill. So I asked them to treat me the way I was treating them. I didn’t pay them, I didn’t pay them for the service. They didn’t give me the service. If I don’t pay for the gas, they don’t give me the gas I did unto them what I want them to do unto me.
Speaker 1: (04:53)
And so if I don’t pay for the goods and services, I don’t get the goods or services, I don’t. Um, if I don’t show up at the family reunion, I don’t see everybody that’s there. And if I don’t show up, then someone else might not show up. And then everybody does it show up. So, you know, like it requires you to be present in the places and I think you can take this even one step farther. Uh, um, with the golden rule, I think that also is part of being connected in with your family and around the people that you’re with. So if you walk in and you’re on your phone, um, and you’re sitting down to dinner, everyone else in like kind, we’ll also get on their phone and sit down at dinner and if you set the stage and you say, here’s what I’m wanting to do, I tell a new parents this all the time, carpet cleaning Tulsa since 1998 I’ve had many times to talk with brand new parents who were pregnant.
Speaker 1: (05:38)
It’s their first baby. We get to congratulate them for bringing a new life into this world. And I tell them, you know what? You can read all the parenting books and yes there are some 10 commandments. Do not like, you know, keep your baby alive. Make sure they’re fed, make sure you change their diaper. Like there’s some, you know, some just general rules of baby health and care that you should know. Some basics said. But as far as what type of parent you’re going to be, you should be, you were not supposed to be someone else’s parent were supposed to be our version. I think we’re all created unique and individual and we’re not supposed to be a single conglomerate. We’re not supposed to be one unified person. We’re supposed to be a bunch of different voices with a little bit different. carpet cleaning Tulsa Take on each song a little bit different.
Speaker 1: (06:15)
Um, style and flavor. Am I more mathematic or am I more artistic or I’m a more outgoing and gregarious and my more introverted, more secluded. Do I like to read? Do I like to hunt? Do I like to fish? I like to play sports. Whatever it is that I like to do. You be the best version of you and you’re going to have a little child looks up to you and they’re going to be, and they’re going to do to you what you’re doing to them. They’re going to learn from you. They’re going to respond to you in the way that you respond to them. www.completecarpettulsa.com And so I just want to leave it on that note. Carpet cleaning Tulsa since 1998 we are complete carpet and give us a call today at (918) 494-7093 carpet cleaning Tulsa and our fiber.