Carpet Cleaning Tulsa | Episode 357

Speaker 1: (00:01)
This is episode three 57 we are complete carpet. Carpet Cleaning Tulsa since 1998. Uh, we wanted to talk to you today about the importance of schedule and a routine. Uh, everyone’s got a different schedule and are different routine to their life and the way that they do things. Uh, we’ve been Carpet Cleaning Tulsa since 1998 and I have had the opportunity to see many co customers’ homes, their way of living, the way they have set up their lives. And it just, it amazes me all of the different variety and capacity that everybody has for creativity. Um, I think there are some hard set rules in life. I believe that, uh, oh, for example, a 10 commandments. So you should get, so you can speak of life. There are some do’s and some do nots. Uh, cs Lewis used to call them the moral law or the, um, the physical law of, of the world.

Speaker 1: (00:59)
There’s obviously the laws of nature. We understand the different cause and effect. Uh, an object in motion will stay in motion unless it has it. Two objects collide, you’ll have an equal or opposite reaction for every action. Um, we understand that what goes up must come down. The laws of gravity, there’s lots of different loads, but I think there are also other laws, laws that do not need to be spoken. Carpet Cleaning Tulsa But our beliefs by everyone, for example, um, virtually every society ever in existence. If you came and did something to hurt my child, then it was considered wrong always. If you came and you know, any man could have a wife but any man could not have another man’s wife like that was considered to be taboo. Um, it’s never considered to be valorous to run away from battle. You always should run into battle is the valor is where you bravely go in there.

Speaker 1: (01:50)
Nobody really said, Oh man, that guy really bravely ran away from the fight. There’s a lot of these simple things that are concepts that go over, but then there’s a ton of other stuff that we do that is our unique perspective or take on life. And I think that’s difficult sometimes for us to understand or to comprehend right off the bat is that each person’s life, each person’s perspective on something brings another unique connection to something. Another perspective that someone else hadn’t thought of. I think so much of our push in society is when we start putting synergy together, which you get multiple people all thinking about and doing the same thing and coming up with unique ways that neither no one of the people were able to come up with on their own carpet cleaning Tulsa since 1998. I’ve just marveled at the different variety and connections that each, uh, place can have when you’re dealing with a customer and their viewpoint.

Speaker 1: (02:45)
I love sitting and talking with the customer to find out how do they do things. So what is then their perspective. I’ve learned that immense amount of knowledge, not from a school book and not from, um, uh, from continued learning specifically, but from just continued talking, continuing engagement from customers that have lived life and they have our perspective. In a way I’ll like, oh man, that’s amazing. I haven’t really thought of that before. I’ve had customers describe to me the different processes that children go through, which helps me tremendously with my own child. Um, as I went through and it recognize that, um, a child that is born as active, born a emotional, they don’t have their emotional center of the brain, emotional feelings side has yet to develop until they’re around a year to two years old. And I said, that’s why everyone says terrible twos and thundering three. Carpet Cleaning Tulsa

Speaker 1: (03:35)
And you’re like, oh, I get it. Because it’s the first time that child is experiencing emotion and so they don’t know how to act properly yet. And she said, the problem with so many parents will take and try to write then tell them not to feel or not to do something as opposed to realize this is the opportunity. And sort of like telling a child not to fall. That’s trying to learn how to walk. It’s like you need to teach them to walk. And so if they’re working on these emotions, the first time they did it say that by the time you’re age three, you have developed all the emotion that you’ll ever feel from that point for the rest of your life. All you learn to do is to control your emotion. And that just really blew my mind. I’m like, oh my goodness.

Speaker 1: (04:12)
The things I’m still struggling with right now is because I’ve not taken the time to strengthen a muscle or can strengthen a, um, an ability inside of me to control myself in a situation. The military uses these same concepts and ideas when they tried to teach, they’ll put them in very stressful situations so that they can be at their high peak of emotional distress and still be able to calmly bring themselves back into play so that they can then focus on the task at hand and say, okay, even though all of this emotion is happening, I now can get back into the motion of what I’m trying to do is, uh, love. Uh, I think it’s clay card would always say, you need to take the e out of the motion. And take the emotion out so that you can get something accomplished. You can actually do something.  Carpet Cleaning Tulsa

Speaker 1: (04:58)
And it’s always important I think to have those opportunities to speak with someone who’s got a different perspective and outside looker. I mean, I would have never been as good at basketball if I hadn’t had somebody critique what I did because I thought I was doing great. But the reality is is that I did what I knew to be the best. Um, I love, uh, uh, Stephen Covey talks in his book about the seven principles of a highly effective person. That there are times where you are doing well, are doing your best. Um, but the reality is that you’re only seeing the world as you see it. You’re not seeing the world as it is because of your life perspective. We’re seen as the way that we believe. If you believe something is wrong, then you see everything that matches that perspective as wrong. If you believe something isn’t wrong, then you’re going to have a different perspective.

Speaker 1: (05:48)
You’re going to come away with a different feeling of an event. I think a great example I heard one customer give me, which said that if you go to see a movie and take 10 people to see the movie and ask all 10 people how was the movie, you will get 10 different perspectives and yet physically they all saw the same movie. There is not a difference to the movie that they saw. The difference to the movie is that person’s Worldview of that person’s perspective of what they saw. They had a different feeling. Carpet Cleaning Tulsa since 1998 we are complete carpet. Give us a call today at (918) 494-7093 uh, we’d love to get you on the way to having new fresh, clean carpets. Again, that’s (918) 494-7093 Carpet Cleaning Tulsa in our fiber.